Level: 48
Class: Techno-witch
Str: 12 Int: 17 Wis: 16 Dex: 15 Con: 17 Cha: 17
Challenge Rating: 15
Locale: Left coast. The traditional territories of the Semiahmoo, Katzie, Kwikwetlem, Kwantlen, Qayqayt and Tsawwassen First Nations.
This issue has come up recently, so I decided to vent on here about it. Being transgender is not a lifestyle choice. While the cause is not known for certain, there are varying theories on the cause. The one I’m inclined to believe, is the one that is seeming to be true for me. From …
There is definitely a loss associated with transition. Not just for those around me, but for myself as well. Even if the ‘James’ everyone knew was a fiction, it was a fiction based on the inner workings of me. Not a reflection, but a bit of a filter, and a twisting – like a camouflage. …
High school was a fractured experience for me. I had my sports – basketball, ball hockey, volleyball, and other peripheral ones. I had my classes – science and math based, with electronics and art as electives. I had my friends – jocks, nerds, rockers, artsy types, goths, etc… I had very varied friends. Sports allowed …
I have struggled with self esteem issues for pretty much my entire life. I can’t recall ever actually being happy about the way I looked as James. Thinking about it in a new perspective, I can see my gender dysphoria having a lot to do with that, if not even it being the root cause. …
I don’t think a mother can ever be prepared to be told that her son is really her daughter. And yet, the news was more of a surprise than a shock. Perhaps I had been partially prepared by a discussion that had taken place some years before, or maybe it was just trust in my …
This week I’ve gone back to work after a wonderful period of 12 days (24/7) of being wonderfully feminine and as close to female as I can currently get. Work involves me being ‘James’ for the time being. Teresa has suggested I get co-workers to start calling me Jess (as it could be seen as …
I’ve written a lot about myself these last few weeks – I’d like to write a bit about my parents. My Mother is my female idol. I am a strong woman now because of what I grew up seeing in my Mom. She gave up custody of me to my Dad so that I would …
The question a lot of transgender women are asked, usually by those who aren’t familiar with transgender issues at all, is a form of this: What about being a male prevents you from doing that which being a woman allows for? Or Why can’t you just be a feminine male? (more bluntly) This question comes …
I’m one of the lucky ones who found my forever person. The person who makes me happy and treats me right. Ya, our relationship isn’t perfect but nobody’s is. As far as I’m concerned the grass isn’t greener on the other side it’s beautiful and luscious right here. I’m happy with my choices. Ya, it would be …
I wrote, last night, on Facebook that 2014 was a year of personal discovery and realization, and that I viewed 2015 as a year of growth and actualization. I came out to everyone as a ‘transgender’ individual in a process I started September 9, 2014. That process ended (if it can ever truly end) with …