Level: 48
Class: Techno-witch
Str: 12 Int: 17 Wis: 16 Dex: 15 Con: 17 Cha: 17
Challenge Rating: 15
Locale: Left coast. The traditional territories of the Semiahmoo, Katzie, Kwikwetlem, Kwantlen, Qayqayt and Tsawwassen First Nations.
Trigger Warning: This may be Too Much Info about me for some people. Read with caution. Ok, so I knew there was a chance this was going to happen. Was actually kinda hoping it would happen, cuz, well, I like new things, and change. And yet, I was also thinking I might be in the …
So today, I went to a support group. Less than a year ago I would have laughed at the idea of me going to group. Not gonna happen ever. And yet, I needed no outside incentive to go. Willingly I went to be in a room of strangers (maybe 6 I thought as I drove …
On Friday, April 2nd, 2015 I got 2 letters in the mail from Vital Statistics BC. I had mailed my application for name change on Wednesday, March 18, 2015. Given that it was 7pm when I mailed it, I feel okay saying it took exactly 2 weeks to get my response. I had had a …
For those that have known me my whole life, you may or may not remember that I cried a lot when I was younger. I hid a lot of it, but I’m sure at least a few of your noticed. The crying continued through my life, but it was hidden better and better. Then I …
Today marks the start of what I’m calling “Phase II” of my transition. It wasn’t a perfect day, there were some hiccups along the way, but the most important result hoped for, for today, did occur. Teresa took today off of work instead of Wednesday to be with me for everything. Today was going to …
Not sure how much of a breakthrough it was, but I had my first social outing where I felt absolutely normal. Normal isn’t the right word, because I don’t think of myself as normal, but situationally, it was normal. I wasn’t feeling my ‘trans-ness’ at all. I was just me, at a birthday party. A …
So, I’ve probably mentioned that I’m transitioning. I don’t think I’ve really said what that means or entails for me and us (at least not in any detail). Granted, I’m only at the beginning of transition, so a lot of this is conjecture on my part, but based on what I’ve read from others’ journeys. …
Self Centred: Totally preoccupied with one’s own concerns. Irony: Incongruity between what is expected to be and what actually is, or a situation or result showing such incongruity. This is an ironic blog post about being self centred. It has become apparent to me that I’ve been somewhat, if not wholly, self centred the last …
Passing is the ability to present as your authentic gender, without the chance of being misgendered. Even for cisgender people this can sometimes be a challenge. For transgender individuals, it is often a mental necessity to pass. In some areas of the world, it is a vitally important survival tactic. It can become an unhealthy …