Level: 48
Class: Techno-witch
Str: 12 Int: 17 Wis: 16 Dex: 15 Con: 17 Cha: 17
Challenge Rating: 15
Locale: Left coast. The traditional territories of the Semiahmoo, Katzie, Kwikwetlem, Kwantlen, Qayqayt and Tsawwassen First Nations.
Well, as 2020 fades into the rear view, I decided I’d reflect back at a hard year. What was supposed to be a good year, just kept getting harder and harder. Early on, things were okay. I was looking forward to my vacation in the summer to see Melissa and actually propose to her officially. …
On November 28, 2019 we started driving towards Disneyland for my first ever visit to the park. My girlfriend Melissa, who lives in California, invited me along to their annual visit to the park. I was informed that this would be an all expenses paid trip for me. Something I was not expecting, but was …
Relationships. As some readers are aware, I am non-monogamous. In another post soon, I’ll go over how that has evolved over the last few years. I’ve moved away from identifying as Polyamorous, and now identify strongly with Relationship Anarchy (relationships without predefined expectations). Melissa and I are still in an extremely committed relationship. I don’t …
Greetings from 2019. It’s been a while since I’ve posted anything, so I thought I’d take a stab at writing. Life has been pretty good the last few months, and because of that, I haven’t felt the need to write. Not every day was great. And not even every month. December, for example, sucked ass. …
On October 22nd, 2018, Melissa and I took a plane from Vancouver to Chicago. Then, we took a stretch limousine from O’Hare to Harvard, Il. And, just like that, I was in small town, Midwest USA for the first time. And, I was there with my girlfriend to meet her mother. Where I grew up, …
This will probably be a long post. But there are some key things that happened in this time frame. The day after my reveal, I had my stent and catheter removed, and started dilations. This was a big day as far as how my life was going to be different from now on. Because I …
Sorry for the delay in posting. Between communicating with the people important to me, and just recovering in general, I’ve not had the time or energy to write. I’m going to summarize the days after this day into one post, but this day was special. Day 11 in Montreal, Saturday May 19th – 5 days …
Today (and also last night after I wrote my blog) has been emotional. Everything is still going remarkably well physically, but my mental state took a huge hit. Starting last night, I was REALLY missing Melissa. I cried for a good 20 minutes before trying to sleep. Going through something like this is hard emotionally. …
Please – do not take me as a typical case for how gender affirmation surgery goes. I am definitely atypical. Other than not being able to sit, I’m having zero issues here. Yesterday was pretty good, had my first bowel movement which went really well. Awkward as hell, but still ok. The food at the …
As I figured, I wasn’t really up to doing a post last night. But I can do one tonight. Today is 2nd day post op – and things are going really well. Yesterday was the actual surgery – started around 12:30pm. I was dreading having an epidural and thought I wouldn’t have one, but it …