Level: 48
Class: Techno-witch
Str: 12 Int: 17 Wis: 16 Dex: 15 Con: 17 Cha: 17
Challenge Rating: 15
Locale: Left coast. The traditional territories of the Semiahmoo, Katzie, Kwikwetlem, Kwantlen, Qayqayt and Tsawwassen First Nations.
Hey Folks, Been a while since I’ve posted anything. Not that I haven’t been meaning to. Lots of things to write about really, but just haven’t had much time. So, lets start with some recaps from last year: Surgery The main thing about last year is that the final hoop for my gender affirming surgery …
So, it’s been a while since I’ve put any any photos up of me. I’m approximately 19 months into transition, 14 of those I was receiving estrogen and progesterone. These are photos of me since I stopped trying to look cisgender. My everyday look more or less. Enjoy.
Yesterday morning I received a message, on Facebook, from someone out of the blue. They were friends with someone on my friends list, so I decided to read the message. It read as follows… Hi Jessica, I hope this isn’t strange or intrusive. Whenever I come across a person who is visibly trans, I like …
Something happened the other day that has caused a shift in how I think about myself, and how I think about my being transgender. I went for a kidney ultrasound last week. A week before, when thinking about the appointment, I mulled over informing them I was trans before the test. Then I had 2 …
Today I went to work with my own hair. A different experience than when I thought I could not wear a wig, and went to work with my own hair in May. Today, my hair is about 7″ long and fairly curly in the back, it is noticeably feminine looking (I think). Probably even more …
…hear me roar. Or something like that. I’ve heard some things third hand that make me feel like ranting a bit. So, here goes. I am a woman. Period. (pardon the inappropriate pun) It doesn’t matter how I dress, how I talk, how I act; I am a woman. It doesn’t matter that I have …
Since this happened today, I’ve been wondering if it would qualify as a blog post. I’d already posted a snippet on my facebook page, but the more I think about it, the more I think I should write something. Today, for the first time at work, I was audibly gendered correctly. This is big for …
Not sure how much of a breakthrough it was, but I had my first social outing where I felt absolutely normal. Normal isn’t the right word, because I don’t think of myself as normal, but situationally, it was normal. I wasn’t feeling my ‘trans-ness’ at all. I was just me, at a birthday party. A …
Passing is the ability to present as your authentic gender, without the chance of being misgendered. Even for cisgender people this can sometimes be a challenge. For transgender individuals, it is often a mental necessity to pass. In some areas of the world, it is a vitally important survival tactic. It can become an unhealthy …
Some of you are possibly familiar with admirers and chasers, but most probably aren’t. There are people out there (in my understanding, predominantly male) who have a ‘thing’ for transgender women of varying types. I’m certain there are admirers and chasers for transgender men too, but I have no experience with them, so I’m focusing …