Level: 48
Class: Techno-witch
Str: 12 Int: 17 Wis: 16 Dex: 15 Con: 17 Cha: 17
Challenge Rating: 15
Locale: Left coast. The traditional territories of the Semiahmoo, Katzie, Kwikwetlem, Kwantlen, Qayqayt and Tsawwassen First Nations.
This is a post I’ve wanted to write for a while. However, it is a sensitive topic, and other people are involved; some directly, some peripherally. Please read with an open mind. This is about changing relationship models, and ever changing relationships within those new models. As in my coming out messages to everyone – …
Okay, this is so that no one thinks I was bullied into opening our marriage. From the beginning, over 10 years ago, I told Jessica that if she ever wanted to be with someone else, that I was okay with it, as long as she was open and honest about it (no cheating). So it …
So, I’ve probably mentioned that I’m transitioning. I don’t think I’ve really said what that means or entails for me and us (at least not in any detail). Granted, I’m only at the beginning of transition, so a lot of this is conjecture on my part, but based on what I’ve read from others’ journeys. …
While the vast majority of my personal experience with being transgender and transsexual has been phenomenally positive, there has been some negativity, and it has made an impact. When I first came out to that one lone person at age 26, I was so absolutely terrified of being judged, and being rejected. Then thoughts of …
I wanted to chime in about a few things that Teresa mentioned in her Insecurities post, but didn’t want to do it as a comment that might get lost in the shuffle. It’s interesting how, her insecurities, have led her to withdraw and close off in the past, much the same way my being transgender …
I’ve been stewing about a comment someone said to me the other day. To be honest, I have been known to stew a lot about comments this person has said to me over the years. But this time I’m going to embrace it and turn it into something good through this post. Paraphrasing the comment: …
I’m one of the lucky ones who found my forever person. The person who makes me happy and treats me right. Ya, our relationship isn’t perfect but nobody’s is. As far as I’m concerned the grass isn’t greener on the other side it’s beautiful and luscious right here. I’m happy with my choices. Ya, it would be …
New Years marks new beginnings for many, and a time to celebrate what was, and what is to come. Yet I found myself feeling depressed and sad, because this year marks a reality that is both amazing and terrifying. It hit me that we take a lot for granted and until several weeks ago I …
This topic has come up a bunch recently, both for me and for the wife. She wrote a very well worded post on Facebook, that I’ll share here: (minor edits for capitalization, and a couple commas) “Just want to clear something up for those who have asked and for those who are wondering. Just because …
Jessica is like an extreme example of don’t judge a book by it’s cover. Lucky for me I’ve always know about James’ female side. I’m not sure I ever expected that that side would be coming out full time and that I’d lose who I thought she was: James. We’ve been together 10 years and …