Tech Girl Jessica

Level: 48
Class: Techno-witch
Str: 12 Int: 17 Wis: 16 Dex: 15 Con: 17 Cha: 17
Challenge Rating: 15
Locale: Left coast. The traditional territories of the Semiahmoo, Katzie, Kwikwetlem, Kwantlen, Qayqayt and Tsawwassen First Nations.

2020 in review

Well, as 2020 fades into the rear view, I decided I’d reflect back at a hard year. What was supposed to be a good year, just kept getting harder and harder. Early on, things were okay. I was looking forward to my vacation in the summer to see Melissa and actually propose to her officially. …

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Disneyland 2019

On November 28, 2019 we started driving towards Disneyland for my first ever visit to the park. My girlfriend Melissa, who lives in California, invited me along to their annual visit to the park. I was informed that this would be an all expenses paid trip for me. Something I was not expecting, but was …

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99 – Relationships

Relationships. As some readers are aware, I am non-monogamous. In another post soon, I’ll go over how that has evolved over the last few years. I’ve moved away from identifying as Polyamorous, and now identify strongly with Relationship Anarchy (relationships without predefined expectations). Melissa and I are still in an extremely committed relationship. I don’t …

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Surgery trip – Day 1

I am planning on writing every day of my Montreal trip. Whether I succeed or not, we shall see. Last night we stayed at a hotel near the Vancouver airport – this was something I am really glad we did. It eased my anxiety immensely about getting to the airport on time. We got a …

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90 – My first meeting with Melissa

On December 26, 2016 I got aboard a train in Seattle headed to Sacramento. Where, 21 hours later, I was going to meet my girlfriend for the first time. I was going to spend 11 days with her. I will admit to some apprehension. I’ve had first meetings go sideways before, but none of those …

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79 – Blood clots

My luck with side effects is fucking awesome. Although, it’s not 100% for sure, estrogen and progesterone likely played a role at least. I spent Tuesday and Wednesday in the hospital being diagnosed for swelling in my right calf/ankle. After answering the same bloody 5 questions at least 10 times, 2 blood tests, 1 ultrasound, …

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